I THINK YOU SHOULD KNOW THIS
One fine day, I will marry a lady of my choice. A lady that I always wanted in life. There are plenty of life out there that we could not even dream of seeing. One couple could dream of living a prosper life but ended up marrying the wrong mate. As a friend of mine said, “ if I were to choose between a rich, fine ass good-looker with everything including houses and cars and you, I would choose you more and always”. She told me a tale about a friendship whom is different from others. A friendship that has different kind of understanding than others. A kind of mutual that gives the picture of how both meets their preferences in a soul mate. A bit choosy yes but it is about how life will be shared, tolerated, balanced and understood.
She said, this kind of tale if so different that she herself could not really understand what happened. Of all the love stories that she heard. This is by far leaves something beautiful to the friendship. There was once a guy who was heart broken and got away from a big misery in a previous relationship. This guy had a lot to suffer and he feels like spitting to his own grave whenever they argued and all the hardships he had been through even though the other party thought that he was only sacrificing a little but yet she was wrong. Despite everything, this guy also did a couple of wrong things and both of them got separated because this guy could not take it anymore. They then go in separate ways.
She also said that there is a lady in the same tale where the lady has never met anyone like the guy in the tale itself. She also had a best friend in which she called it but instead only they understand. She said that this lady sings a different melody when she meets this guy and she at first liked how her best friend come to her. Of how her best friend treated her. She said he was the nicest guy ever. She had never met any other man like him. But as I said before, she sang a different melody. Her hearts wants what it wants. She feels like as if even though this guy is nice to him, but she seems to not running in the same pace. Her hearts wants the guy in the tale and not her best friend.
They then met in an unexpected event where they were both in the same team. They got to know each other bit by bit but as time goes by, both feels like they are just living in a dream. A dream of having their crushes falling in love with each other. A dream where they have what it is so called a never ending love story. Then after a few months, they got to know each other and they slowly adapt to each other. Luckily, they have the same interest in almost everything. In terms of music, happiness in life, prosperity, enthusiasm, places, environment and etc. In both minds, they only take it as “ I wish this is real, because it feels real.” She pictured is as if they both just need each other so much.
As she pictured, they guy said,” babe, happiness is not about the rich person who has everything but its about a person with a heart that he wants to share with. A life he wanted to endure with together, a life that every good guys wanted which is happiness to the end of life. Not all guys are going for lust, they search for love. Life must go on.” There was once they got to a cafe and after eating, the guy showed something to the lady. There is are two tablespoon full of water. He said,” look here, in a what ever we have now, this should be our life. As is it means like we both equal in everything. Both should respect what ever the good there is in each other. Life must be balanced and we should hold on this motto in life which is avoid argument, always discuss.” then he poured one of the tablespoon’s water back to the dish and left only one full. He then said,” this is not good and we should not be as unbalanced as this one”
They got to know about each other and up until now, they are still good, close and authentic friend who shares the goodness in life but to others, they might have it the other way around. Might see them as couples but only they understand. They walk in the same pace, sings the same rhythm, talks at the corresponding believes and share the mutual respect to each other. That is what it should be in our life. Because believing is the only way to make lovebirds survive their marriage years.
A foot note to the lovebirds
Let me give you a hint, will you want a sad life? Will you be able to go through this life voyage alone? Will you be able to have kids? Grandchildren? Life with your soul mate? And most importantly, will you be able to understand what a love life is all about?
I am sure that your answers must be really in accordance to yourself. In what ever it is, you should appreciate what love life is all about. You will always find prosperity when you have the good soul mate that appreciates who you are at what moments that both of you endured with. I wish you all the best in your love life. Get rid of the negativity that conjures around you. Get rid of the negative people in life. They leave nothing but blames and sorrow.
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